Senator John McCain is on the defensive after The New York Times reported rumors that the Republican candidate had a close and possibly romantic relationship with a lobbyist eight years ago.
According to The Times, members of McCain’s presidential campaign in 2000 noticed a close relationship between telecommunications lobbyist Vicki Iseman and McCain. “Convinced the relationship had become romantic, some of his top advisers intervened to protect the candidate from himself—instructing staff members to block the woman's access, privately warning her away and repeatedly confronting him, several people involved in the campaign said on the condition of anonymity,” reported The Times. Both McCain and Iseman deny any romantic relationship.
McCain, whose presidential bid is based on high-ethical standards, dismissed the report. “He has never violated the public trust, never done favors for special interests or lobbyists, and he will not allow a smear campaign to distract from the issues at stake in this election,” his campaign responded in a statement issued by its communications director, Jill Hazelbaker.
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