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So you’ve met that special someone. And you’ve agreed to spend the rest of your lives together in a very romantic, very legally-binding way. Now is the time to bring up the subject that seems to cause more arguments among couples than almost any other: Money.

Remember, when you enter into a marriage or domestic partnership, you aren’t just asking the other person to share in your life; you’re also asking them to share in your finances. And like every other aspect of a relationship, this requires a great deal of discussion and compromise.
Getting Married or Partnered


The first step is to sit down and decide whether or not a prenuptial agreement is right for you. Sure, it isn’t exactly the most romantic conversation you’ll ever have, but a strong prenup can go a long way towards keeping the peace, especially in the event that, Heaven forfend, something goes wrong somewhere down the road.

And while you’re talking (if you’re still talking), it’s important to decide on the best way to combine your finances. Examining your respective credit reports is fairly important; before you walk down the aisle, you should know exactly what you’re walking into.

You might even want to begin thinking long-term; from getting the right insurance assistance – health, life, disability - to making (or changing) your wills, the sooner you plan for the future, the easier life will be when it gets here.

Sure, it may all seem a little intimidating, but with a little forethought, and a lot of communication, you’ll be able to establish a financial record-keeping system, discuss your shared goals, and set up a system for managing your money. And once you’ve gotten that out of the way, you’ll be able to concentrate on the important things: like whose turn it is to take out the trash.

Posted By Adryenn Feb 25 5:45 PM
The most critical conversations a couple can have are before they get sideswiped by a financial crisis. Just like a disaster preparedness plan is in effect in every school, every marriage should have a game plan to fall back on in times of overwhelming stress. One of the key stressors in second marriages is child support, or more specifically bad accounting practices in child support agencies nationwide. In one state, 27% of the accounts overstated the amount owed! That's more than 1 in 4 who lost their license or worse, their freedom. What would you do if that happened in your marriage? Understanding the rules of the game is why I wrote "Every Single Girl's Guide to Her Future Husband's Last Divorce." Because you can never be sure that things are going to stay rosy. So have a game plan, and keep it up to date. Knowing that you've planned for success will help keep you together through the thick and thin. -Adryenn Ashley

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